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They Are Home now

We had a wonderful week with Levi, Kaci and the boys. Different boys than I usually blog about: these are my Colorado boys, Justin & Micah. Sadly, it came to an end today and I had to take them to the airport (in the “worst wind storm of the winter”). All I will say about that is that is was darn wet, the road mist from dualies & semis is always worse than the rain itself, and we made it safely to the airport.

Levi & Justin

Levi, Micah & Kaci

Micah

Giggling cousins. (No, this was not the spitting contest. Darn, I wish I had the camera for that! One boy would blow a raspberry and the other two followed suit. Then they dissolved into giggles. Boys!)

“Poppa” and the “twins” : Justin and Javan vying for Poppa’s favor.

Grandma and Justin.

Thank you, Kaci.

I meant to get a photo of all three of my kids together: Arwen, Levi & Chrystal. But I put it off, thinking I would get a second chance. Unfortunately, we didn’t get to see Chrystal again (Levi & Kaci did, but not me with my camera) while Levi was here. Dang! I must remember to get photos the FIRST time they are all together, “just in case”.

 

I miss them already. Levi leaves for Iraq this week. 😦

But I am so very happy I got this week with them!!

ttfn (tomorrow I will post “Herding Cats” – a light moment in photographing grandsons.)

House Guests Coming!

I am about to call it a night. My house is as clean as it is going to be with the dogs and the mud/dust/hair that they create. My studio is as kid-proof as it is going to get. I’ve pulled out the inflatable queen-sized bed, purchased new guest pillows, located the sheets and blankets to put on the bed and cleared a place for it. I’ve been to the grocery store and stocked up on what I hope is enough food for four adults plus 1 toddler (at least). Don and I have arranged our schedules to take staggered days off.

And I am tired. Beat. Sore all over. I’m not sure if it was the two strenuous walks with Harvey in cold air or the mopping, but I sure feel like I’ve been through the exercise mill! Wiped out.

My son and his wife are coming for a visit!

Late tonight, my son and his lovely wife and two wonderful, adorable little boys will be getting off of a plane at PDX International and my husband will pick them up and bring them home. Don is taking Tuesday and Wednesday off from work. Tuesday because he knows he won’t want to get up at 4:00AM to go to work after the late-night airport run and Wednesday because he really wants to spend time with his son and grandsons.

I am taking Thursday and Friday off to hang out with my daughter-in-law, love on those babies, and hug on my son.

They fly back out on Sunday. And sometime next week – probably on the biggest American-Irish holiday of the year – my son will fly out to Iraq for 8 months. Yes, Virginia, America is still deploying soldiers to Iraq. Yay for “pulling out all American troops”.

I probably will not blog while the grandboys are here. I will, however, take a whole boatload of photos (I was going to write something else, but I don’t want to give my friend, Jodi, apoplexy because I said the “s” word twice in one month) (besides, my mother in heaven rolls her eyes every time I swear and I feel guilty for using words she did not approve of in casual conversation).

I’m a middle child.

I am also a very excited grandmother. I can’t wait to get to meet Micah, the youngest of them all, and become more acquainted with Justin (who is very close in age to Javan). I have stories to read the boys and hugs to give them.

And I hate to confess this because anyone who really knows me knows how much I hate any kind of monkey, but… since Justin loves monkeys… I bought him a stuffed monkey. It almost killed me, but what we do for our grandbabies…

ANYWAY –  I bought this monkey. And it is almost cute.

 

Mary Denise

We called her Denny. She was born on the 15th day of May, 1959. I remember the day, vaguely: my grandparents were there and they let me have a foot-long hot-dog (which my parents would never have allowed because I couldn’t eat the whole thing). I didn’t eat the whole thing, but no one seemed upset that most of it went into the refrigerator. I remember nothing of my sister.

What there is to write of my sister’s life, I leave to her children. They all loved her fiercely. None of them want to hear about the sadness, the addiction, the abuses, the crimes. They remember their mother and they defend her with all of their hearts and souls. She was their best friend.

My sister cut her foot on something in her yard. She never wore shoes, not even in February in Ely, Nevada, when the ground was still frozen. She didn’t think much about the cut.

She called my dad to tell him she felt terrible. Her leg ached, her stomach roiled, she felt like she was dying. She cried on the telephone.

Her husband took her to the emergency room in Ely. The doctors did not know what was wrong with her, why she was in so much pain, or how to diagnose her.

I don’t know the exact timeline. Two days? Less? On March the 2nd, 2000, my dad called to tell me that Deni was being taken by air to Reno. She was in a coma. She’d been ill, but no one knew why. It had only been a couple days.

At Washoe Medical Center in Reno, they knew exactly what they were dealing with, but Denise’s body had already begun to shut down. There would be no saving her.

She died of Necrotizing Faciitis. Flesh-eating bacteria. A streptoccocal bacteria that invaded a small wound in her body (in this case her foot) and began to shut down her vital organs. She died within 36 hours of cutting herself. The disease is so rare that the doctors in the small town of Ely had no idea what they were up against and by the time she arrived in Reno, it was too late.

March 3rd, 2000.

Ironically, our grandmother – my father’s mother – also died of a “streptoccal infection” at a hospital in Salt Lake City in 1930. The description of the disease in my grandfather’s journal is strikingly similar to the progress of the disease in Deni. I don’t know if there’s some genetic link. I merely find it ironic that two members of my family died of a bizarre disease, leaving small children behind.

It has been eleven years. Deni and I were not particularly close, but she was my little sister. I took her death hard. And for whatever sentimental reason, this anniversary of her passing is also hard.

I loved her. I miss her.

Her kids have grown up to be great kids. She would be happy with that.

 

Paint Me! PLEASE!

I was walking around Goodwill today, just looking. There’s always fascinating stuff at Goodwill and I like to drop in once a week to search for silk blouses (which I then cut up & use in projects as silk is the very best fabric for painting and creating things). It’s much cheaper to purchase an old silk shirt at Goodwill than it is to purchase new silk fabric.

In the back of our local Goodwill, there are short aisles crammed with things people discard: ceramics, wooden things, metal things, electronics, frames, toys.

I found this goose back there.

I picked her up and gave her a skeptical look. I tried to set her back down, but her pleading yellow eyes and the bad paint job just screamed at me.

PAINT ME! PLEASE!

“Pretty please? What happened to me was not my fault. It was a crime. You can fix me…”

The basic bones of the goose are good. She’s 23″ (58.4cm) tall and made out of 1″ (2.5cm) thick plywood. Not chipboard: plywood. She’s solid. Her feet (foot?) is screwed on with two screws. Her eyes are perfectly lined up.

I’m thinking I can make her one species of goose on one side and another goose on the other side.

It would have to be similar species, but I think I could pull it off.

I’ll be poring through guide books, trying to decide. Whatever I do, I’ll have to be very careful painting that foot (those feet?): some geese have black feet and some have orange feet. I want this goose (these geese?) to blend nicely.

I’ll probably get rid of that stupid hat.

Can’t you hear her whispering, “Save me…”??

Winter

With all the media-hype surrounding the February snow storm this week, I was pretty certain it would be a complete no-show. There’s a strange correlation between media panic and the predicted disaster being a complete flop (conversely, when the media doesn’t hype it up, it is a total meteorologic disaster). Sort of “Murphy’s Law” but I’d name this one “Tri-Met’s Law: If all of the Portland metro area buses have chains on, the weather will agree to not produce snow or ice. If Tri-Met deigns it unnecessary to chain up, there will be city buses sliding sideways down city streets.”

So I was a little more than pleased that we got enough snow to take some quick snap-shots.

I was less-than pleased with how they came out. I confess I did not take a lot of time choosing or shooting my shots, but when I had a chance to have my camera out, it seemed like I was being hurried along by some other force.

I used a little photo-shop to improve on the few photos I did like.

It was early morning & I just wanted to get in the car & down the road. I had no idea how slick the roads would be or what the commute was going to look like once I got out there. I snapped this of the Lodgepole pine tree in our front yard, framed by the taller Doug fir across the street as I was getting into the car. The snow was falling profusely, threatening to give us more than the inch and a quarter we already had on the ground.

It stopped snowing as soon as I left home.And the further I got from home, the less snow there was.

In the afternoon, I left an office where there was hardly any snow and drove home to a winter wonderland. Fresh snow clung to all the trees and grass, but not the sidewalks.

I really wanted to take this one. But I had a split second to do it before other shoppers stepped into my view-finder. Snap! No time to compose or think about it. I could only hope.

This was the only one I had time to work on: the daffodils in my yard yard, pushing up through the new-fallen snow. I had to boost the color for the contrast of yellow against the white of snow.

Next week, I get to pick daffodils & start a whole new season of fresh cut flowers. Now that is exciting!

Commercial Interlude

I try to keep my blog light and avoid “heavy” topics. For this reason, I was a tad bit irreverent yesterday when I wrote about where I am in the waiting game.

Trust me, I am not in the least bit angry at God.

I understand that many of my friends do not share the same faith I do. I never want to make you feel unwelcome.

That said, I have to say that it is my faith that is driving me these days. When this journey first began the doctors were bantering around the “C” word rather freely. It’s been 7 weeks this coming week & no one has diagnosed cancer. I keep getting put on the back burner (or so it seems to this rather selfish “about me” blogger).

I determined early on that I could either freak out or I could approach this from my foundation of faith.

I believe God has a crazy sense of humor. I know that people who survive the most adverse situations are people who are able to interject humor into them – or, barring laughter, an uplifting outlook on life. Humor (however twisted) is my defense.

I am not mad at God. I did ask Him if we could just fast-forward to the “I know what is wrong with me” part but I never seriously considered I would get a “yes” to that request. I figured it was right up there with “Never pray for patience – unless you want a lesson in patience”. (Can I get an “AMEN” from everyone who ever prayed for patience and then got a LESSON in patience?)

I also realize that the world is a huge mess right now and I am not exactly anyone’s prayer priority. For crying out loud, I don’t even know if I really have a problem or if the doctors all over-reacted. There are some real priorities out there: Christchurch, NZ; Libya; Wisconsin (did I just say that? Wisconsin? A priority? God love ya, cousins!); Somali pirates and murdered Americans and more on the world front. And in my own circle of influence, I have friends who are facing down the spectre of cancer – for real, not imaginary like me. God is pretty busy.

So here’s my commercial. I am sorry if I came off irreverent. I think God understands. I think God chuckled. I think God needed the laugh. He’s got some really depressing stuff on earth to deal with.

And to close, I want to quote my favorite bumper sticker (don’t read if you are easily offended – I just mean it to be funny):

“Jesus loves you, but I am His favorite.”

(As my dear friend in Auckland, NZ, would say: “Now I am ducking for cover in the bushes…”)

(For the rest of you: smile. God did. He thought it was cute. I’m sure He did because lightning did not strike me…)

(Life’s too short…)

(and no, noone said anything. I just felt guilty. How Catholic is that?)

(I’m Methodist.)

SHUT UP JACI.

OK. `ttfn 🙂

AUGH! (C-T Scan Results)

Oh for crying out loud. I prayed God would let me fast-forward to knowing all the answers but apparently He (and I’m thinking right now He must be a HE) thinks I need to go day by day, hour by hour. No fast forwarding.

I heard from the urologist today. Well, his nurse called.

1. There is a kidney stone, but it is a really tiny one and will pass by itself with no medical intervention. I am hoping that translates into “a minimal amount of pain” (having Been There/Done That and Bought the T-Shirt). If my personal doctor is to be believed, a kidney stone of that size could not possible produce the amount of blood I was seeing at the beginning of January. But my personal doctor could be wrong. He’s a GP, not a specialist.

2. There is a polyp inside my gall bladder. Say what? How weird is that? Did I need to know that? It is “probably” and “more than likely” benign. But just in case, I need to have an ultrasound to look at the gall bladder and liver. That sort of freaked me out until I did a little online research: the liver and gallbladder are close. Yo have to look at the liver in order to look at the gall bladder. I happen to know my blood work (I had a complete work up done) shows my liver is functioning just fine.

A polyp? They’re going to look at it, declare it benign and forget about it. And this is costing me how much? I’ve had polyps. I’ve had polyps removed. We will not discuss where or why or anything else: they were benign. They’re the internal skin tags. Face it, I have skin tags. And moles. A lot of moles. I hate moles.

(My youngest just got a Monroe piercing. This is a piercing through the upper lip where Marilyn Monroe had a mole. It’s very “chic” to get a Monroe piercing. And, frankly, it looks cute on Chrystal. Painful, but cute. I just don’t understand why anyone would want to pretend they have a mole. I have several on my face I’d like to give away. HAHAHA.)

Just trying to be funny, Chrystal. You look cute with your piercing.

I digress (but she does look cute).

I have not scheduled the ultrasound. That’s something I will do tomorrow.

3. The urologist wants to do one more thing before he rules out all the possible causes of hematuria (I’ll let you look that up). He wants to do a cystoscopy. I don’t even want to think about that because it requires a catheter. I’ve also BTDT and didn’t want to buy the T-Shirt. Oh joy.

Here comes some TMI (Too Much Information): he wants to scrape the inside wall of my bladder. Oooooooh. That sounds… well, thinking of adjectives and coming up dry.

(Did you know that the human mind begins losing track of nouns and other words when you turn 50? It’s a natural progression of age. To me, it’s worse than losing my car keys. I love my words. I love adjectives and nouns and descriptive phrases.)

I have no good descriptive phrases for what I imagine a cystoscopy to be like.

What I do have words for is how soon I can have this lovely procedure performed: not until April 4.

APRIL??!! You are kidding me! Are urologists really that booked up? Are Americans truly that messed up that they need to book up urologists?

I’m healthy. My blood tests came back and I have low cholesterol, I’m not anemic, my kidney & liver functions are perfect and and and… I am not in any pain.

I just happen to be bleeding and no one can figure out why. And they sure are not in any hurry, either. Well, my personal doctor was in a hurry but up here on the you-need-to-see-a-specialist level of life, everything slows down to s-l-o-w m-o-t-i-o-n.

Well, I have too much life to live. I set the appointment (April 4). I’ll call about the ultrasound tomorrow. And then I’m going to make plans to do some fun things, some things that don’t require wondering why the doctors were all alarmed in the first place but now they seem to be lackadaisacal. If I had a teenager in the house, she would say, “WHATEVER.” And roll her big blue eyes. (Arwen was the Whatever Queen with the rolling eyes accent.)

If in doubt, fall back on the Ground Rules. Only post funny comments, please. I won’t be offended if you don’t take me seriously.

Seriously.

(PS – tell Chrystal how cute she is. She doesn’t know I just used her photo and made fun of her piercing. That was unfair of me. She’s cute. She’s pretty. My lip hurts thinking about it…)

ttfn~

Mustangs & Mom

I have been mulling over how to write a blog post about the wild horses of Nevada. I want to bring attention to what is considered by some to be illegal round-ups of the mustangs off of Federal land (specifically Bureau of Land Management land) within the State of Nevada. But I don’t want to jump into something that I am not fully informed on and go off half-cocked.

The issue is complicated. My thirty years of marriage to a man with a wildlife management degree (almost) under his belt helps me see some of the “other” side to the arguments. When I met Don, I was an anti-hunting radical. Our first date (walking his trap lines in two feet of snow out of Sumpter, Oregon) changed much of my thinking (it was also incredibly cool that we got up close and personal with a herd of elk as they walked through a barbed wire fence. Elk think nothing of fences).

I understand complicated eco-systems, the delicate balance of different species in one area (especially when those species compete for the same food sources and vie for the same limited water supply), and the need for a balanced approach to “multiple-use” Federal lands. There are days when I spout vile rhetoric at the US Forest Service because of their tendency to manage forests solely for the logging industry and the screaming eastern liberals who want more and more of our National Forest land cut off from the public in order to “preserve” it. Those spouts are generally when I come upon a road I have always used to find out the Forest Service has “decommissioned” it because there’s no more logging in the area. Nevermind the camping, hiking, hunting and fishing: there’s no money in those uses.

But I digress.

How to write about wild horse round-ups when I am not there to observe and substantiate the “facts”?

I decided to add a few links at the end of my blog and let the reader decide. My story is just going to be about how wild horses helped me grieve. And, oddly enough, my mother didn’t even like horses. She never understood my fascination with them but she never tried to impose her personal feelings on the subject.

We moved to Ely, Nevada in 1970 when I was entering high school. I was involved with the movement to save the wild horses. I sent in ten dollars, got some sort of certificate, and helped write letters to our Congress to pass the Wild Horse Preservation Act of 1971. I’m sure I sent more than just the $10, but my memory is foggy and that photo album is buried in a box. And it really isn’t relevant to my story: I am just setting the foundation.

Years passed, I moved away, got married, had children and ended up living in the Portland metropolitan area of the northern Willamette Valley. A long way from “home” and my beloved alkali Great Basin roots.

In 1996, my mother passed away. We set her memorial service for the first week in August and I returned home to make my plans.

We took a two week vacation to make the trip down, planning (as always) to do a lot of back-country camping.

Our first stop in Nevada was up in the Santa Rosa Mountains. A lot of memories are packed into the Santa Rosas: childhood camping trips, petroglyphs my dad took us to see, living in Paradise Valley, the wonderful rock formations of Hinckey Summit, and snow drifts in the summer.

The view from the summit south toward Paradise Valley.

It was the end of July, going into the first week of August and the thermometer dropped to 25 degrees (F). We had a light snow on our tent that first morning.

From there, we headed to Winnemucca. We turned east on I-80 as far as Elko where we turned south and drove down to Jiggs. We followed a dirt road over Harrison Pass looking for a good spot to pull over and camp. the best spot we found was covered with fresh cow poop (love open range!) and – worse – human garbage, including disposable diapers. We could have lived with the cows but having to clean up disposable diapers did us in. We kept driving. Don’t even ask me about the soap box topic of human filth leaving behind their trash.

We turned south along the Ruby Marshes. We came to a crossroad where the old Pony Express trail runs east-west across the desert. A wide gravel road followed the trail and, on a whim, Don took it.

That was when we saw our first pile of horse shit.

It was, literally, two feet high. There were more, sometimes three feet high. Horses are “bathroom” animals and will go out of their way to poop in the same spot rather than pollute their own pasture. You don’t see it as much in domesticated horses as in the wild. I wish I had taken photographs but Don was tired and cranky, the sun was low and we really needed a place to camp.

We had a good Nevada Atlas and a good map of Federal lands in Nevada. A few miles east of Johnson Cabin, we turned north along a jeep track and four-wheeled out into some deep sagebrush along a dry wash, looking for a good place to set up a tent on National Forest land.

We found a great spot among the dried out skunk cabbage, on a little rise above what was probably a mini-marsh in the early springtime. The grass was deep, the sagebrush was tall (a good sign of deep water), and the junipers were twisted and ancient. And the dust in the wash was full of horse tracks. We’d seen one herd on our way in and assumed that herd used the wash as a trail of sorts.

We were so wrong. There were so many more horses. The horses knew we were there. We could hear them. That evening, we heard at least one small band go by. I hiked out with my camera and snapped photos. They preferred the ridges where they could see danger approaching.

I was shooting an old Kodak 35mm SLR with ASA 400 film using a 75-200mm zoom. It just wasn’t long enough.

The grief in my heart over losing my best friend was temporarily suspended as we counted the different herds that passed by.

That night, coyotes moved in and surrounded us, serenading wildly. Sadie, our English Pointer, snuggled closer to her human pack and shivered. She was a stupid dog, but never stupid enough to wander out into coyote territory.

The next morning, Don got up and hiked up the draw. I let the kids sleep in while I sat on a chair and caught up on my journal and plotted how I might sneak up on some wild horses. A slight sound startled me and I looked up: a mule deer buck stood a few feet from me, upwind, curious.

“Hello,” I said. He just stared. Then sight recognition kicked in and he realized I was a human being and he stepped back into the sagebrush, melting away in the way of the mule deer.

We broke camp and headed out.

There’s a part of every little girl that falls for a Palomino stallion. There he was on the skyline, pushing his little band of six or seven down the ridge.

Don turned off the engine and I slipped out of the cab, sneaking up into the juniper and pinion, hoping to get close enough for my little lens to capture the wild west. My intrepid little family followed suit, leaving only the dog in the cab. The dog was wise enough not to bark.

He charged us. Threw up his head and whinnied, and raced at us, flaxen mane and tail flowing out behind him. The lead mare, a gimpy bay horse, rounded up the rest of the band and started them on their way away from us.

He stopped about 300 yards out. I so wished I had a better lens. I could see him clearly but the camera couldn’t: his nostrils flared, his head was high: he was trying for scent. I prayed the wind would hold. But he was too wise and whirled, chasing his little band away.

In all, we saw seven bands of wild horses, none over eight horses, all in that one little section of horse-poop heaven. One band of three “bachelors”. And not one unhealthy horse, except the gimpy mare and she moved quite well on three legs. The grass was deep, the sagebrush tall, and the water hole pocked with horse tracks.

My heart, so heavy over the loss of my mother, soared.

We related the tale in Ely. My dad, that long-time Forest Ranger and horse hater (or so I thought) then related to me some tales of his own about some of the beautiful wild horses he had seen on the range during his years as a Ranger. Turns out, he had a soft spot for horses that he never wanted me to see. He even deeded me his old tack, the bridle he used on his favorite half-broke Forest Service outlaw, a blue roan known as “Smokey”.

Our return trip to the Willamette valley was not as eventful. We took Highway 93 north until the Secret Pass cut-off. I talked Don into going over Secret Pass.

There was a range fire down by Ruby Lake.

We crossed over the mountains and headed back to Oregon via Mountain City and Bruneau Sand Dunes in Idaho.

My heart was still sad about the loss of my mom, but it was so much lighter. I knew it had to do with the mustangs. There’s something about wild horses, something about the freedom of the range and mule deer that come down into camp to say “good-morning”.

My mother’s ashes rest over the Santa Rosa Mountains far from the wild horses. I’m sure she’s happy there. <wink>

Some links you can go to if you are curious about wild horses in Nevada:

Editorial

PhotoRover (my high school friend, Arla, with a Nevada perspective)

Controversy

Please note: my photos were taken in 1996 which was apparently a good water year. The vegetation is thick and green, spring was very late (remember it froze in the Santa Rosa Mtns in late July), graze and water were good.

I have been among wild horses in Oregon since that trip to Nevada. Still not up-close-and-personal like my friend, Arla. I’m still dreaming of a trip into Kiger Gorge to see the Kiger Mustangs which date back to the original Arabians.

I cannot comment personally on the video-tapes or editorial of BLM cruelty during round up because I was not there. But I am certain there is a bit of truth to the sensationalism and that bit of truth makes me sad. The wild horse is not just an icon: it is a native animal. It belongs on the open range with the white-faced cattle and the curious mule deer. (I love cattle on the open range!)

Food Critics (& Harvey)

I was so tired today. So, so, so tired. And just sort of waiting for the world to end as we know it: a slight pain in my left lower back (about a .5 on a scale of 1-10) and actual blood in the urine. I suppose a kidney stone is just not an emergency to a doctor. But, all things considered, the pain is minimal, I will call the doctor on Monday and the pain is minimal. (I passed a kidney stone once before. It was not a .5 on the pain scale. It was a 15 on the pain scale of 1-10. Yes, a 15. If this one is a .5 and stalled, I am fine. Really.)

But, seriously – back to today.

The boys came over. Three of them anyway. Two of them are still in Colorado. The three that came over took over my house, foiled Harvey on his Saturday WALK! program, and pretty much took over my life. We played with blocks, Legos â„¢, ate crackers and watched “The Land Before Time”. Zephan was very sad when the T-Rex finally died.

Wait. What? He wasn’t rooting for Littlefoot or Sera? Nope: my boy was worried about the T-Rex. Good boy.

He helped me make cornbread for dinner. He stirred the mix up with milk and egg. He’s a very good mixer. I think this kid has a future in baking.

We presented the dinner on carefully arranged plates designed to tease the pallette.

The meals: chile + corn + cornbread. Zephan’s is on the left & Javan’s on the right.

Food Critic #1 – Javan. He filled up on crackers before dinner so had no comment on dinner. Wait. He ate all of his corn. The canned corn was good.

Critic #2. He also stirred the cornbread.

There’s corn & chile left, but the cornbread is gone. Good job, Zephan!

Food Critic #3.

Wait. He was eating canned baby food. How can he possible critique my cooking?

I just included him because he is so adorable. What can I say??

So – no photos for the rest of the day but I really want to brag on Harvey. He was so awesome. He expected that today was Walk Harvey Day because it was Saturday. But the boys came over and thwarted all of Harvey’s plans. Talk about disappointed. Have you ever disappointed a dog? It’s really sad.

Around 3PM, we decided to walk to the park. Arwen pulled out the stroller for Javan and Eli and I was designated to hold Zephan’s hand. On a whim and a lot of trust, I got Harvey out to walk with us. He weighs 70# or so. He gets very excited. And I really, really want this dog to be good with my grandsons.

He was awesome. He seemed to understand that we had to walk slower and he could not pull on the leash much. He toned it down and walked at the heel, tail wagging, and at “toddler speed”. We went to the park where all the smells overwhelm a dog like Harvey but he kept it reined in. And at the playground area, he really toned it down. He tucked his tail between his legs and shivered, but he stayed under control the entire time. He met my next-door neighbors and he greeted a shy little girl named “Una” who really wanted to “pet the doggy”. Una approached Harvey correctly and shyly and I got down with Harvey to control him. He was awesome. He let her pet him, he wagged his tail and he basically ignored all other stimuli.

And on the walk back home we met two little yappy dogs on a leash. I had Zephan on one hand and Harvey on the other. Harvey hesitated a little but complied with the “sit” order and waited until the yappy dogs were past. he didn’t try to pull me or Zephan off course.

He was, in short, a gentleman. An English Setter. A wonderful gift to me.

In return, he got to clean the dinner critics’ plates.

Left overs belong to the dogs. 🙂

ttfn!

While I Wait…

So – no news is good news, right? because i have no news. Actually, that isn’t such good news because I am still bleeding & I still need answers, but I guess the C-T Scan results are still not at the doctor’s office, so I am still waiting.

Thankfully, I have no pain & the bleeding is down to microscopic. But – whiner that I am – I still want some answers.

And since I don’t have answers, I thought I would post a link to my Photo 365 project as it now stands.

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by jacidawn

ttfn~