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Slugs

Wow. From family to slugs, you say?

I needed a photo for the 346/365 slot and there it was, clinging to the back door jamb last night.

The slugs had retreated during our short-lived heat wave but it cooled off enough last night that they came out from under the back porch stoop en masse. And not little slugs. Big ones.

Sliming their way up the outside of the house and up the door jamb, and – they hoped – on into our house.

I caught them before they slimed into the house.

We humanely tossed them out onto the pavement in front of our house. I hope they didn’t make it back.

Walking barefoot out onto the back step and finding this with your sole is not good for your soul. Nevermind how horrible it feels to your foot.

I hate slugs.

Family Time

Levi & Kaci did not make it in to town until the 4th of July, but they made it! And Justin loved his Gamba and Baba!

He was just happy to be OUT of a car seat and free to move around!

Monday, July 5: we threw a very impromptu First Birthday Party for Justin (almost 11 months old) complete with ice cream cake from Dairy Queen.

Birthday Cake Face!

We had six children three years old and under roaming the yard. Oh, what fun!

Levi’s best friend showed up with his three children. This is their newest baby, just a month old. Riley Rose. My daughter and daughter-in-law are excepting new arrivals, too.

Good friends came over, and the whole Presley family was there (woot!) at one time.

AJ & Chrystal, Levi, Kaci & Justin, Don & I, and the Weissers: Zephan, Arwen, Sam & Javan.

On Tuesday, I had to work. I know. Bummer! But the kids “borrowed” my camera and wandered around town taking photos. It was so hard to pick just ONE to be my favorite photo of theirs, but I decided on this one of Levi & Justin at the overlook in Oregon City, looking north over Milwaukie and Portland. Why? Because they’re so handsome together and because of the accidental capture of the turkey vulture catching thermals behind Levi.

I finagled Wednesday and Thursday off after that, reasoning that the kids were leaving on Friday and because they got here so late, I would not have as much time with them as I’d hoped to. I’m so glad I did that!

For one thing, the temps went from mid-seventies to mid-nineties overnight. Wednesday, Thursday and Friday were upwards of 95-degrees (F). A wading pool was definitely in order!

On Thursday, Arwen brought the Weisser boys over to play with Cousin Justin. This is my FAVORITE photo from the entire week: the Buddha Boys together on the blanket. Javan, the pasty-white boy, and Justin sporting his new haircut (all the curls are gone)!

Zephan tried to convince Muppy (his name for Murphy) that he should go into his kennel. Muppy said, “No way! I’m free!”

Harvey had to get in on family time, too. (Kaci says I should have named him “Doug” after the dog in the movie “UP!” Darn! It is totally appropriate. But he’s named Harvey and he comes to that…)

Friday, I had to go back to work. My son & his family packed up and left sometime during the day.

This was on my camera when I got home from work Friday. I love that boy!

A beautiful end to a wonderful week.

Something Very Cool

Since the kids are not here (yet), I thought I’d sneak in a post and #338 photo.

I sneaked in some gardening time today, wrapping up the worst of the weeding and planting my measly, sad flower starts. The clouds kept obscuring the sun: it was lovely when the sun was out and downright sweater weather when the clouds floated through.

I had to weed around one of my lavender plants which is always a dicey operation what with the honey bees and the bumble bees that swarm them. Only there were no bees! The few bees I saw out were swarming over the other lavender and they were very few in number: a couple honey bees and a couple bumble bees. A cloud of sadness fell over me: has the weather been so cold that we lost our honey bees? Or did something else happen? My yard has always been a haven for bees!

While I contemplated the quiet of the garden (no buzzing), I continued working my way around the flowers on my hands and knees.

Then I saw this THING.

It looked sort of like a bumble bee at first glance, but not fuzzy or yellow. In fact, it was quite green.

Don said it looked like a Jerusalem cricket, but we both knew better. It wasn’t as big as one and it wasn’t yellow. And it didn’t have big cricket legs.

I put it in a jar while I sat down with a guide book. The thing looked positively crustacean with little folded up crab arms, but I knew it was an insect (six legs). A very slow moving insect of some sort, possibly a cricket or some sort of nymph. So I started in the grasshopper, crickets & cicada section. Still, the back legs were all wrong.

I flipped over the last page of the grasshopper section and there it was.

A cicada nymph! See those brown shells the cicadas are hanging onto? That was what form they were in before they split their shell and emerged with wings. And that thing is what my green thing looked like!

Unfortunately, the Grand Western Cicada is not found here in the Pacific Northwest.

Fortunately, the periodical cicada is.

I’m very familiar with cicadas in the adult stage. I’ve never seen a nymph before.

I carefully put the little bugger back on the ground under the Hawthorne bush so it could make it’s slow journey to the tree where it will harden and the adult cicada will emerge.

I love periodical cicadas and their sudden appearance. They live between 13 and 17 years underground before burrowing upward and changing into that bizarre green form that I found in my garden. Then they emerge from the soil and make their slow way to a tree. They climb the tree and begin the last step of their metamorphosis: their exoskeleton hardens, then cracks down the back and the adult cicada emerges.

If all goes well, hundreds of cicadas emerge at the same time, all part of a “brood”. I’m not sure all will go well because now I think the mole that has been burrowing around our yard has been hunting the cicada grubs and nymphs. I think I know what the grubs look like: we’ve been finding these huge, weird grubs in the soil every time we garden. There are a lot of those grubs in the ground and if they are cicadas, then maybe we will have a wonderful harmony of cicada song in a few days.

I did a quick search on the Internet, but most sites only deal with cicadas in the Midwest and there’s a dearth of information on cicadas in Oregon. That’s sad. I’ve come across emergent broods many times in the 33 years I’ve lived here (mostly in the Steens Mountains but also here in the Willamette Valley) and there were cicada broods that emerged in the Santa Rosa Mountains of northern Nevada when I was a little girl.

While there were very few bees in my yard today, there was something magical there, too. That magic came in a pretty ugly package, but when it is fully emerged and it begins to “sing”, it will be a fully beautiful magic.

It made my day, anyway.

Going on Hiatus

I was going to say ‘vacation’ but that would imply that I am taking time off from work to go somewhere other than my own backyard. I am going to take a couple days off next week, but I’m not going anywhere special.

No, Special is coming to me in the form of my almost one-year old grandson, Justin.

My son and his wife are leaving Colorado Springs tonight to make the drive here. They’ll be staying in my studio, so I won’t have access to my computer for most of the week. I’ll be taking photos, but I will wait to post my photo 365 until they are gone and the dust is settled here. And I will post a blog if anything breaks in the Kyron Horman case. But for the most part, I plan to be playing with that little boy with the Elvis blue eyes and the dark curly hair.

(I stole the photo from my daughter-in-law who just sent me a message to tell me they are on their way. YAY!)

Not only is my son coming up, but tomorrow is the day that Harvey gets his “pass” from the vet (finally!) and he will be able to play with Murphy and run and jump without fear of tearing out stitches. It will be a relief to not have to keep the dogs separate anymore! And it will be a bigger relief to finally give Harvey a much-needed BATH. He peed all over himself when he was in the pound and the first week here when he was still so sore from surgery, and we haven’t been able to give him a bath because of his stitches.

Tomorrow is BATH day, Harvey. (I hope he likes water…)

AND – we have more company coming! An old friend & neighbor who moved to Arkansas many years ago is coming by on Monday. He’s remarried and is in Oregon visiting his extended family and a few special friends. Keith’s boys grew up with our son and daughter, so there will be plenty to share and I am sure there will be lots of love and laughter and memories.

I have Monday off, but I will have to work on Wednesday. I’m aiming to take Thursday and Friday off (hoping the real estate market falls off for just those two days – isn’t that terrible??). We are planning a big party to celebrate Justin’s first birthday a month and one day early. Cake, ice cream and presents (BOXES!).

The best part of all this is that SUMMER will be here for a week. It is supposed to get into the 90’s (which is a tad hot and sultry for the Portland area, so I hope the kids are prepared for it. I know *I* am!) for most of next week.

All that to say: life is coming at us fast and so is SUMMER. YAY!!

Oh – one more thing – today’s Photo of the day:

I call it “reflection.”

And now for a lighter post than yesterday’s.

There’s a hole in the tree across the street from my house.

It’s a perfectly round hole in the foliage. I can only see it when I am in the upstairs studio.

There’s no logical explanation for it.

It is twenty feet up in the air.

Just a hole. A peep hole to the sky beyond.

A Hole in the Tree.

photo 335/365

A couple weeks ago I blogged about a missing child, Kyron Horman. At that time, I stated that I did not want to believe the stepmother was guilty of any wrong-doing in the case even though the odds were that she was. It seems that family is always the first suspect and somehow I just wanted it to be something else.

We are nearing the end of the fourth week since Kyron went missing. Everything points to the step mother. The only thing missing is Kyron and a confession or a clue.

On Monday, Kyron’s father filed for divorce. That’s not surprising: tragedies have a way of driving a wedge between people instead of bringing them closer. But the damning motion was that he also filed for a protective restraining order against Terri Horman and he took their 18-month old daughter with him when he moved out. Further, a statement was issued by the step-father, the bio-mom and the bio-dad. They admitted that the step mother did not even know they were making a statement.

When the family jumps ship it doesn’t look good.

In the past few days, I have spoken to or communicated with women I know who never had children of their own. Women who wanted children, but could not have them. And they said the same thing: If you don’t want the child to love, give him (or her) to someone who does.

I was struck by how hard this is for women who wanted to be mothers but who were not given that gift. Every time a pseudo-parent harms a child a childless mother (or father) feels that stabbing pain of why not me? I would have been a GREAT parent!

Until they wrap up the Kyron Horman case and charges are brought against someone, pointing fingers at someone is pure speculation.

But it is speculation that is brought up in the break rooms and cubicles of offices all around the Portland metro area. People are discussing it in grocery aisles. We are tuning in to it with the morbid fascination of moths drawn to flames. In the end, the truth of what happened to Kyron Horman will probably burn us deeply in our hearts. I hope we do learn the truth, but I fear it will be a painful truth.

I don’t know if there is any logical way to bring this post to a close. It would help if the case came to a close (and I hope/pray it will in the next few days). Then the pain can come to a head and the healing can begin.

A Kid’s Day

Sunday was an interrupted day. I might have gotten more gardening done, or more things ready for my son’s visit next week, but my oldest girl called and asked if she could come over and hang out. I rarely turn down grandchild time.

I wasn’t too keen on introducing a wounded Harvey to grandbabies, but it had to some sometime. And why not a time when Murphy was gone so there was no added distraction?

The boys came over and took over my house. Well, Zephan took over the house. He’s quite bossy. We had to do all of his favorite things, including reading all of his favorite books once. He monopolized the toys. He stomped on a sleeping Harvey’s front paws.

Harvey kept on sleeping. Good Harvey.

We went outside where it was muggy and hot and Zephan insisted on playing croquet, getting out his shovel and rake, and stomping up and down the handicap ramp with the “popcorn” machine. My daughter, Javan, the dog & I wisely sat in the shade and watched Zephan labor. I don’t think that boy has an “off” switch.

He wanted me to get the big red wagon out. I gave him one ride in it, but truthfully, it hurts my back to pull that thing around in our lumpy backyard. Eventually, Zephan decided he should pull the wagon around.

See? I can do it.

It looks easier when Baba does it.

Wait – I remember: Baba turns his back on the wagon and pulls it like this.

Yep – it goes pretty wall this way!

Don’t worry: Gamba (that’s me) had a good hold on the lead just in case Harvey tried to dance around the little boy. But Harvey was a good boy. He sure wanted to play with that little boy, though.

I’m glad he passed the grandbaby test because the third grandson will be here in a few days. (I’m excited about that – you can expect my blog to be plastered with Justin photos.)

Sunday wasn’t all about Zephan (the Bossy One) and Harvey (“Baby Puppy” for some unknown reason): it was also about unabashed cuteness.

Javan employs a two-fisted eating technique. He stuffs two cheeks and holds food in each hand. The kid is voracious.

This kid is quiet when he eats. Finally. If he’s not eating, he’s bossing.

Consider all those photos yesterday’s news, because the following photo eclipses them all and thereby gains its status as Photo 334/365 (and my favorite photo from Sunday):

At least until his cousin Justin gets here.

Shadows

Photo of the day:

I love the play of shadows here. The plant is a bleeding heart.

A Lovely Saturday

I kicked back in the lawn chair tonight and Harvey laid his head on my foot. Had this weekend happened without Harvey, it would have been a lonely old evening: Donald packed his gear and headed for the woods for a three or four day fishing and camping trip. I can’t take that many days off right now and I needed to stay home to get our house ready for an onslaught of company next weekend.

And I needed to take care of Harvey.

We have done our very best to keep the two big dogs separated, but inevitably there have been exciting confrontations. No, not dog fights: these two dogs get along. It’s just they get along a bit too well and they are both young and large, and the temptation to rough house has been strong.

I guess I should not have been surprised that Harvey pulled a stitch somehow. It didn’t start bleeding until sometime in the wee hours of Friday night and I noticed it right away in the morning. But it meant an emergency trip to the vet clinic as soon as they opened.

Harvey had to be left at the clinic so they could reopen his wound and restitch it, so we are starting from square one with the healing process. Only this time around, we have three days without Murphy, so Harvey can be a calm dog and maybe heal a little better.

And I paid for the Cone of Shame which he must wear when I am not around to supervise him (like when I am sleeping or he is in his outdoor kennel & I am running errands). He doesn’t like the Cone of Shame.

But he doesn’t have to wear it when I am supervising: a sharp “NO!” discourages him from fussing at the site.

He has convalesced while I have worked my butt off to get the house in some semblance of order before family and friends descend on us for the Fourth of July weekend. We took a couple long walks. And we sat out in the yard, listening to birds, neighborhood sounds of summer, and enjoying the beautiful sunshiny day. I missed Don’s company and getting to talk about life and the day, but… There was Harvey.

Now we are going to log onto Netflix and download a good movie. I’m thinking either a chick flick or an animated movie that my husband would never go for if he was here.

Hope you are enjoying the evening, too.